Changes often happen slowly, and parents are good at saying "I'm fine." These are the signs worth paying attention to on your next visit.
- Missed or doubled medications. Pill bottles that are too full or empty too soon.
- Weight loss or an empty fridge. Cooking and shopping have become hard.
- Falls or near-falls, or new bruises they can't explain.
- Changes in hygiene. The same clothes, unwashed hair, or body odor.
- A house that's slipping: piled-up mail, dishes, laundry, or spoiled food.
- Unpaid bills or late notices.
- Memory changes: repeating stories, missed appointments, getting lost while driving.
- Withdrawal from friends, church, or activities they used to enjoy.
- Dents or scrapes on the car.
- A worn-out spouse or family caregiver. Caregiver burnout is a sign too.
How to start the conversation
- Lead with their goal: "We want you to stay in your home as long as possible."
- Suggest starting small, a few hours a week for errands or bathing help.
- Involve their doctor, who can be a trusted outside voice.
What it costs, and who pays
Many families don't realize Georgia Medicaid's EDWP program may cover in-home help for parents who qualify. Others use private pay or long-term care insurance. See payment options.
A free in-home assessment is a low-pressure first step. Request one here.